Yesterday, we wrote
about fat-shaming in the media. Since
today is Student Saturday, we're going to talk about some fat-shaming trends
that are especially popular with teenagers: the bikini bridge and the thigh
gap. If you haven't heard of either,
here's some reading material on both:
Both of these trends focus on something that is particularly
interesting to us as feminists: an absence of body.
A disturbingly pervasive Freudian idea fought by feminist theory (if
you've heard it, great, if not, we'll be your fabulous, fat, feminist tour
guides through theory!) is Freud's description of the female body as a
"lack." He characterizes women as inherently less-than men, simply
because they lack a phallus. The phallus makes men the superior sex, and women their less-than counterparts. This idea may seem strange, silly, or outdated at
first, but it really does pervade our culture today.
The bikini bridge and the thigh gap are perfect examples of
Freud's "lack." College student and blogger for the Huffington Post's
Women's Blog Angela Zhou describes the obsession with these trends as follows:
"How ridiculous does it sound to boast what is thought of as a lucrative
physical body part, when in fact no part of anyone's body makes up a thigh gap
or bikini bridge. Both are simply an absence of body that many women now
worship" (Zhou).
So, let's recap. Freud theorizes about women having lesser
status because of what he calls a biological lack and defect.
Decades later, women idolize parts of their body that are lacking--they believe that a thigh gap and a bikini bridge, blank spaces in which
their bodies do not exist, increase their value and attractiveness. They strive to lack and succeed whether or not they fail. That is, they either get the gap and thus succeed at lacking, or they fail to obtain a thigh gap and lack the unattainable lack! (yes, it IS ridiculous and circular logic---let's crush this trend!)
These trends relate to yet another part of feminist theory:
the gaze. This is easiest to understand
in terms of movies and advertisements. The gaze refers to the idea that women
on screen are objectified by a male gaze. You can see this in certain
commercials for shampoo or lotion when the camera focuses on a section of a
woman's body, dehumanizing the woman and using her as an object to sell a
product.
While using a leg or arm in an advertisement for lotion
makes sense, the issue here is that it follows a trend of objectifying women
and women alone.
It comes from the modeling industry, an industry that caters
directly to the gaze by encouraging unhealthy body obsessions.
However, it has now leaked into popular culture through the
media, and now this unhealthy obsession is not only a problem that models face,
but one that young girls face. In her piece for the Huffington Post, Zhou
recalls sitting on the beach talking inanely about the thigh gap with her
friends.
In the WW's experience with student teaching, she heard many
young girls talking about the thigh gap as well.
This is a serious issue, and one that focuses on something
that doesn’t even exist. It is literally
an obsession with nothing.
As though these problems weren’t troubling enough,
the unhealthy thigh gap obsession is furthered by the fact that it is literally physically unattainable for some women (see article linked above) because
their bone structure does not allow for it. SOUNDS FAMILIAR. Just as Freud
Others women as the “lacking” (less privileged, less valued and esteemed)
counterpart to men, women who seek an unattainable thigh gap devalue
themselves over something that they cannot possibly obtain! (Even if they do
manage to obtain it, they are OBTAINING A LACK OF SOMETHING).
Why participate in trends that celebrate something that isn't there? This is the trend of the unattainable; the celebration of what women don't have rather than what they do.
Why participate in trends that celebrate something that isn't there? This is the trend of the unattainable; the celebration of what women don't have rather than what they do.
If you read the articles above, you know that the bikini
bridge began as a way to shame fat people, devised by an individual on 4chan.
(In the BB’s experience, other users on this website post horrible and offensive
things, too). This is such a prevalent and important issue to discuss because
it is so old YET current, it ties into Freud’s theory AND feminist theory, it
is meant to be “thinspiration” YET it is anything but (healthily)
inspirational.
Again, the lack of space between the two hip bones, leaving
them exposed to hold up a bikini bottom so that it does not touch the typically
flat stomach beneath, shows how the female lack is idolized. What supposedly
began as a cruel joke to shame fat people who couldn’t obtain the bikini
bridge—and those people who aren’t even fat but still can’t obtain it—has
turned into something that some women actually expect of themselves.
In addition to STRIVING to LACK SOMETHING, both the bikini
bridge and the thigh gap encourage unhealthy behaviors. This isn’t about
shaming skinny people by un-shaming fat people or saying that skinny is bad and
fat is good, or vise versa; it isn’t about saying that dieting is no good; it
isn’t about denying the benefits of a healthy lifestyle. IT’S ABOUT THE FACT
THAT THE BIKINI BRIDGE AND THE THIGH GAP, FOR MOST, ARE PHYSICALLY UNOBTAINABLE
AND LUSTING AFTER THEM DRAGS WOMEN BACK INTO A PLACE OF LITTLE EMPOWERMENT AND
UNHEALTHY BEHAVIORS. WOMEN STRIVE FOR A LACK WHEN THEY SHOULD BE STRIVING FOR
SELF-LOVE AND WHOLENESS.
We're going to say
that again because it is really important.
Instead of focusing on being a confident, comfortable, WHOLE human
being, women are trained to focus on a mostly unobtainable LACK of body. The entire quest to be thinner to be
prettier, or even to be thinner to be healthier, is based on the idea that the
less space you occupy, the more worthy you are of being a human being. This next example comes from the WW's favorite
show, Doctor Who. For those Whovians who
started with Rose Tyler and Christopher Eccleston, think back to Cassandra, the
last human. For those of you who don't
watch Doctor Who, do that. But if you
don't have time, here's what I'm talking about.
Rose and the Doctor travel five billion years into the future to see the
final destruction of the Earth, and attending the event are other notable,
wealthy members of alien society. One of
these celebrities is Cassandra O'Brien, the last pure human. She is literally a piece of skin, stretched
like a canvas, with a face. She has
achieved PURE human beauty for a woman, and that beauty is unparalleled
thinness. Here's a picture for all the
non-whovians:
You can also see this idea in the following spoken word
poem, which focuses on the shrinking of women to accommodate male figures in
their lives:
The two trends we focused on today, the bikini bridge and
the thigh gap, feed into this bizarre idea of worth based on less space
occupied. Unfortunately, these ideas are
readily available and accessible to young people. That's what makes these trends dangerous.
Bikini bridges look naaasssttaaayyyy!!
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